How many times do you look in the mirror and feel unsatisfied with your body? How many times do you tell yourself you’ll do something about it tomorrow? But tomorrow never comes!

Recognize The Problem. 

Majority of the time we can blame ourselves for not exercise enough or at all. You should have maybe worked harder and not spent the entire time at the gym worrying about looking silly or admiring others more than focusing on your own training.

Maybe you haven’t given up the unhealthy foods? Regardless the exercise reasons behind it all, sometimes you’ve got to simply understand that our genetic makeup and characteristics just works against us, sometimes that body you want just can’t be for us.

Don’t beat yourself up, find what works for you. Train either indoors or outdoors depending on your preference and season, choose healthier meal options and even take up stretching classes.

Realistic Goals.

Instead of setting goals that are just to lose weight you should be more specific. You need to exercise as a whole rather than just wanting to lose weight on your belly. It just doesn’t work like that.

Unless you’re aiming to starve yourself into a size 0, sometimes we’ve got to accept the fact that somewhere whilst seeking to lose fat the body can only lose a certain amount before it becomes unhealthy. Will a massive weight lose change be good for you?

A major problem is people forget that when training hard, muscle weighs more than fat. So some people will wonder why they’re not losing fat (weight) when in actual fact they’ve done an excellent job! But of course they’ll never see it and will wonder what on earth people around them are saying when they begin to get complemented.

Set up short-term goal that aren’t about your weight, and be commit to them fully.  When you reach the short term goals be kind to yourself, give yourself a complement or two.

Stop and Think.

Don’t constantly put yourself down. Something you’ve probably not even thought about is that the more you insult yourself the more the people around you will begin to see more faults in you too. Which in turn will make you feel worse but at the day it’s your own fault for sharing it with them. You must be especially careful in case there are children around, this could potentially be a negative experience for them. They’ll begin to question what is the ideal body? Soon children will start to wonder if they’re fat themselves and at a young age it’s too difficult for them to understand weight loss, strength training and proteins.

• Take the first step, sign up to classes or a gym.
• Be punctual and consistent – Don’t take time out because it’s raining or you’d rather relax and work extra hard tomorrow.
• Bring in friends and family to join you exercise.
• Drink plenty of water.
• Stay positive!

Approximately every year, I’m sure you realize the needle on the scale is just that little harder to budge. But how? You’ve cut back on portion size, you’ve even said no to those delicious desserts! It was only last month that you even signed up for Zumba classes, and yet your jean size is only going up whilst your energy levels are going down. WHAT’S GOING ON?!

Starting in your early 40s, your body goes through a series of changes that profoundly affect digestion, metabolism, and other bodily functions. Thanks to hormonal and other changes, the very growth rate of your cells slows rapidly down. It’s just something we have to learn to work around.

Here’s a 10-step plan for understanding the challenges that prevent weight loss over 40, and for learning how to overcome them.

1. Get to know your body.

Many years ago, older didn’t necessarily mean plumper. Think of those icons of the American prairie, they looked to be in perfect shape no matter the age. But today, those of us over 40 face a twofold challenge: We’re living longer, and we’re no longer out there catering to our farm animals at 5 a.m in the morning.

When it comes to burning calories, it’s a fairly simple equation. What goes in must be burned off, or it sticks to our ribs. Acquiring weight is absurdly easy, eating just 100 extra calories a day will lead to a 9- to 10-pound weight gain over the course of a year.

How much is 100 calories?

Not a lot: A can of Coke contains 155 calories, a chocolate bar more than 200. But after 40, our activity level tends to decline, too. So the challenge is to bring the two into balance and exercise after you’ve enjoyed these tasty treats.

Look back over the past year, and think about when your weight seemed to be holding steady and when it seemed to be trending slowly upward. What were you doing during the good weeks? Make a list of what works for you, and what throws you off. Your own healthy habits in the past are the ones most likely to work for you now.

2. Eliminate underlying metabolic conditions.

Would it surprise you to know that thyroid problems strike as many as 1 out of 5 adults over age 40? And 8 out of 10 of those adults are women? The most common of these is hypothyroidism an underactive thyroid and it’s one of the primary reasons many women over 40 can’t lose weight. The thyroid is a tiny gland that produces hormones that regulate metabolism, and when it’s not activated. Think of low thyroid as having your internal thermostat set too low. Symptoms include feeling cold all the time, poor circulation in the hands and feet, clammy hands, tiredness and lethargy, hair loss, and weight gain despite real attempts to exercise and eat well.

If you suspect an underactive thyroid may be slowing your metabolism, the first step is to call the doctor and ask for a thyroid test.

3. Adjust your eating habits for maximum energy.

Your goal at this stage in your life is to keep yourself feeling full without succumbing to the temptation to eat like you could at age 20. One strategy is to eat more frequently but to consume less at each sitting. An added benefit of eating this way is that it’s easier to keep your blood sugar steady, so you don’t have the peaks and valleys that contribute to fatigue.

Here’s the rule:

Try eating five to six small meals a day, and don’t go more than three or four hours without eating. For example, you might eat a light but healthy breakfast before you leave for work, then have a nonfat yogurt in the late morning. Then instead of eating a big pasta lunch and spending the afternoon in a stupor, eat a light lunch and spend the rest of your lunch break taking a brisk walk. An afternoon snack of nuts and an apple keeps you from needing the 4 p.m. sweet treat and makes it easier to avoid overeating at dinner.

Your goal is the opposite of the starvation approach to dieting, you want to trick your body into feeling satisfied and well-fed at all times, though the total amount you’re eating is less.

4. Time your eating.

Most experts agree on one thing: Snack after 8 p.m., and whatever you eat is more likely to go straight to your hips and stomach. Happily, the opposite is also true, what you eat in the mornings, when your metabolism is revved up to its optimum operating speed, is much more likely to be expended efficiently.

Don’t like to eat breakfast?

Unfortunately, there’s no way around this one; eating a good breakfast is one of the key habits experts have identified that keeps thin people thin.

5. Trick your metabolism with fat-fighting foods.

You’ve probably heard it all before, but it’s true: It’s really not just about how much you eat, but how much of which foods. There are plenty of healthy foods you can eat all you want of and no, that doesn’t mean stuffing your fridge with celery sticks. Instead, make a few simple tweaks to your diet, incorporating foods that actually fight fat instead of those that trigger it.

6. Make muscles your friend.

The more muscle mass you have, the more effectively your metabolism burns calories. But sad to say, a natural tendency of aging is to lose muscle, gradually replacing it with fat. So in order to enlist the calorie-burning abilities of muscle, we do have to work at it.

The key here to long-term benefit is basic strength training. Buy some hand weights, a bar, and some stretch bands, and channel your high school gym teacher. And don’t ignore your core; planks, curls, and Pilates moves help strengthen the deep core muscles that are key to posture. Make it as pleasant as possible; work out while you watch the evening news or your favorite sit-com. Other tools that help: kettlebells, an exercise ball, and ankle weights. Slowly and gradually build up those biceps, abs, deltoids, and glutes, and you’ll have some key allies in your fight to prevent age-related weight gain.

7. Get more sleep to burn more calories.

Sleep gets ever more elusive as you age. It’s not just that we’re busier and more stressed. We also have multiple physical issues, from back pain to snoring to night sweats, any of which can interfere with getting a good night’s sleep.

Yet, paradoxically, getting a good night’s sleep is one of the keys to losing weight. In recent years, significant research has shown that lack of sleep is directly connected to weight gain because of the actions of two hormones, leptin and ghrelin, that control hunger and satiety, or feeling full.

Here’s how it works:

When you’re sleep deprived, ghrelin levels increase at the same time that leptin levels decrease. The result is more craving, less feeling full. Add to that the fact that sleep-deprived people often crave “energy” foods, which tend to be sweet or salty, and you can see how small changes in your routine can add up to big weight gain.

8. Strike up a healthy relationship with your sweet tooth.

A trick that many experts recommend: Cut the treat in half before you start eating, carefully wrapping the second half up to “save for later.” You may or may not want it after, sometimes if you eat the first half slowly and consciously enough, you’ll feel satisfied. But knowing it’s there if you do plays a nice trick on your brain, which tends to crave things it perceives as being in short supply.

Researchers have recently discovered that artificial sweeteners fail to trigger the body’s natural satisfaction response. So eating that 100-calorie artificially sweetened cookie only adds to your problems; you’ll keep on wanting the real cookie, so the 100 calories you just ate were in vain.

9. Forget dieting. Focus on your fuel-to-energy ratio.

If, like most 40-somethings, you’re packing some extra pounds, you’ve probably made plenty of resolutions to go on a diet. You’ve also probably figured out by this point in your life that diets rarely work, and neither does suddenly embarking on a strenuous new exercise regimen. There’s a good reason that sudden, drastic changes don’t lead to long-term weight loss, and may even lead to a rebound. Nature designed us with optimum abilities to maintain a steady metabolic rate, because it helps us weather food shortages and sudden demands on our energies.

Unfortunately, this means that when you’ve gradually gained weight over time, your body has adapted to the new weight and now does its best to hold onto it.

Make slow, gradual adjustments to each end of the equation. YOU decide which end of the fuel-in, energy-out equation to emphasize and when.

10. Make slow, realistic changes in tune with your lifestyle.

Let’s say you want to lose 10 pounds. To do so right now, you’d have to burn 35,000 calories which is an overwhelming number that would require you to eat nothing at all for about 2 weeks, or jog for 51 hours, or walk for 126 hours. Not only would it be impossible, but attempts like those would send your body into starvation-mode metabolic slowdown, sabotaging your efforts.

Studies show that if you take the slow-but-steady approach, you’re much more likely to keep that 10 pounds off. Remind yourself that you are the only one in charge of tuning up your metabolic engine. Decide whether to focus on cutting down the number of calories you’re consuming, or on upping the number you’re burning.

Your primary goal should be making small, gradual lifestyle changes that you can incorporate into your daily routine and stick with over time. That’s the ultimate secret to combating over-40 weight gain.